What is it that defines happiness? why are some people happy and others miserable?
Are happy people happy because they have everything they’ve ever wanted? Are they in a perfect relationship?
I have found the secret to happiness, how to attain and maintain it. Each of us has the power within to be happy and the possibility is in us from birth. It’s a highly personalized formula. You have to take the time to get to know yourself and let yourself naturally develop and define through your life.
You must feed your soul. Give it what it desires most. You cannot deprive your heart of what it wants and needs. You cannot trick your heart either, it knows you better than you do at times.
The secret to happiness is making your heart and soul a priority and doing what makes you happy at all times, no matter the cost. If you have a dream, then follow it and make it come true. You alone have the power to see it through.
Don’t forget to take pleasure in the little things; a smile, a hug, a beautiful day, spending time with a friend, spending time alone. After all, we only live once. It’s a heartbreaking and overwhelmingly beautiful thing all at once.
Love deeply and breath easy. And when you lose yourself in stress and fear and sadness, remember all that you have to be thankful for and see the beauty in life around you.
I have always thought that I would know when I found the one, when I am his whole world and he is mine, he remembers the details of my face like I do his, and when he would do anything for me like I would do for him.
True Happiness
The Meaning of Love
Love can mean many things to different people. I believe part of the process of defining yourself is deciding what kind of love you want to receive and give when you are in a relationship. I am big on sacrifice and making my relationship a priority.
I used to think that a good relationship was when you are sweet with your love in public and he opens doors for you and says sweet things to you and you never really argue. But the thing is, all of that makes a good relationship, not a great, life changing one. You need the argue so there’s passion and you learn to work through problems. And being committed means giving love when it’s needed most, giving your undivided attention when they speak, never going to bed angry, and doing random acts of kindness. It means, to love their family as your own, staying up late to help prepare for their big test the next day, getting up early to make them breakfast and send them off.
The wonderful thing about being human, is that there are so many ways to communicate your feelings to someone. So tell them that you love them with a short and sweet letter in their work bag, whisper a warm thought as they go to sleep, hug a little firmer, and smile at them a lot more :)
No measure of time with you could be long enough, but lets start with forever.
It’s so important to love; to love so deeply that your heart breaks when he’s not near you, that the first thing you want to do when you wake is touch him because you missed him in your sleep.
“I restore myself when I’m alone.” -Marilyn Monroe
Everything Matters
This will be mine. A place where I can be myself. A place where I can think out loud and discover the truth. Every beautiful thing will be safe here, so I can remember it always. I only have one life, just a few more years, so I will write everything down and take note, because everything matters.
